i am not a christian. neither am i a buddhist. but i strongly believe that there is a higher one up there. God. and i also believe that God is fair. what you dont have is compensated in other ways even though you may not realise it. so i dun understand how can inferior complexity happen!?! and the sad thing is they dun even know it themselves.

anyway i was rather pissed with someone. and also my sister's fren. it is really funny. i wont spell names here. but i will roughly share the story with you guys.

anyway i have this fren (u can guess who he/she is for all i care. u may not even figure out cos he/she cld be my schmate, my classmate, my relative, my facultymate, my colleague, my ex-colleague or watever) who suffers frm this. i shall call him/her ZZ.

ZZ loves to put pp down. Whatever pp have, ZZ LOVES to compare. I have this thing and ZZ will wanna prove that his/her thing is so much better than mine by saying that mine lacks this, lacks that. FINE. does not matter with me. :) i trust my choice when i buy things.

ZZ loves to humilate and look down on people who are deemed as more inferior than him/her. im fine with it if that act of his/her makes him/her feel so much better since ZZ suffers from that. anyway people are entitled to their personal views esp when it comes to others. so when u humilate people by saying that they look ugly, they got horrible dress sense, i treat it that u are just voicing out your own views. i wont rebuke unless u make unnecessary comments abt me.

ZZ thinks A, B, C brands are inferior brands bcos they are not expensive enuff. so if anyone uses A, B and C brands, these pp are inferior too. OH WELL. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT IF YOU USE F, G AND H BRANDS, IT MAKES U MORE CLASSY AND SUPERIOR THAN ANYONE.

doesn't ur religion teach you that everyone is fair in this earth?

let me tell you this. you may have the best looking face on earth, but u tarnish it with your character. I REPEAT, GOD IS FAIR.

you are my fren. i do not wish that you would comment on my frens or anyone else just bcos u think they are inferior compared to you. and the worst thing of all is, they are not inferior than you bcos of the qualities that they lack. it is bcos you deemed them as inferior bcos by doing that, it makes u feel more superior. that will only aggrevate your inferior complexity issue.

i hate to type like tt. i cant spell names out. anyway my sister's fren was such a joke tt day. they were out choosing a pair of sunglasses. oh yeah, by the way, her fren is just a plain jane with average looks. my sister is just an ordinary gal as well. :)

my sister's fren thinks that she is so much better than my sister bcos she has/had bf before. that explains for the made-believed charm. (this comment is rather subjective, but i really have to say that my sister is so much better than her bcos my sister is so much hardworking than her, so much more obedient than her, so much more kind-hearted than her, so much more lovable than her, so much more polite than her. anyone who has her as a gf would be a very fortunate guy though she loves spending money on dumb VCDs. haha sharon, you are going to kill jiejie.)

haha anyway that aside, her fren had the guts to comment that my sister looked like an auntie when she tried on a pair of sunglasses and she told my sister that she would be better w/o any glasses.

i was like "!!!!!!!!!"

5 min after our food came, i told my sister to forgive such people bcos these people really need our help so that they can feel better abt themselves. i explained to her abt the issue of such inferior complexity and she totally agreed with me.

so next time round if ur frens make horrible comments on you like:
EEE, UR CLOTHES ARE SO UGLY.
EEE, U LOOK SO FAR.
EEE, TODAY U LOOK SO UGLY.
EEE, WHY U BUY THIS? THIS ONE NO GOOD. U SHLD BUY THE ONE THAT I BOUGHT. EVERYTHING U BUY ALSO SO LOUSY ONE.

smile to them and say alrite, will do, thanks for the comment. :)

they cant bring u down and ur confidence of yourself would nt be shaken too! :)